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Feminist Pedagogy Isn’t Enough to End Oppression in Academia | Bitch Media https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/school/beyond-feminist-classroom
Thu 05 Sep 2019 10:52:23 AM CEST archive.org
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Feminist pedagogy alone is inadequate to the barriers facing women, people of color, and queer people in institutions of higher education. Instead, we should look toward changing the institutions that structure our teaching. Just as we teach students to contextualize the texts and people we study, we must understand our classrooms as products of the broader university environment.

feminism university
The Best Abortion Ever https://www.thecut.com/2019/06/the-best-abortion-ever.html
Fri 28 Jun 2019 11:49:23 AM CEST archive.org
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It lasted about ten seconds. I was just about to say, “This really hurts,” when, suddenly, it didn’t hurt anymore, and the doctor was snapping off her gloves.

“Was that it?” I said as I felt the speculum come out. The doctor didn’t say anything, but my companion said, “That’s it. You did great.”

“Holy shit,” I said. “That was hands down the best abortion I ever had in my whole fucking life. You’re amazing.”

abortion feminism health
How women got illegal abortions before Roe v. Wade https://www.washingtonpost.com/history/2019/06/09/when-abortion-was-illegal-post-series-revealed-how-women-got-them-anyway/?utm_term=.620461074da5
Sat 15 Jun 2019 03:48:33 PM CEST archive.org

In January 1966, The Washington Post ran a four-part series on how women in the Washington area obtained abortions. At the time, abortion was illegal with few exceptions in the District of Columbia, Maryland and Virginia. Now, nearly a half-century after Roe v. Wade, new abortion restrictions are being imposed in Alabama, Georgia, Missouri, Ohio, Utah and other states. Below is an abridged version of The Post’s four-part series, edited to highlight personal experiences.

abortion feminism health
What Will It Take to Destigmatize Teen Motherhood? https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/destigmatize-teen-motherhood
Sun 12 May 2019 04:25:19 PM CEST archive.org
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Stigma blocked my ability to feel valued as a real person in our society; I felt that people saw me as trashy and my body as damaged goods. Feelings like that are reinforced when society judges teen moms for not marrying or staying with their partners. And too many of us are conditioned to accept a predestined fate of poverty and failure. These are the ways in which stigma creeps into our lives and rarely leaves us. The pervasive messages about how harmful teen pregnancy is and how promiscuous and irresponsible teen moms are, a characterization rarely used to describe teen fathers, promote discrimination in the very places teen parents should feel safe, like our doctors’ offices and our schools.

feminism motherhood
I Am Tired of Overcoming Trauma: Does Healing Exist For Queer People of Color? https://wearyourvoicemag.com/health/mental-health-depression-poc
Sun 12 May 2019 04:13:29 PM CEST archive.org
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[CW mention of abuse and rape]

“Why are you depressed?” my mother asked me when I responded truthfully instead of lying with a simple, “I’m doing fine.” […] And then more men used my body like a glove and they used my kindness as a balm for their own wounds, and they used the home I made for myself to shelter their needs, and then I kept trying and it got harder.

feminism poc queerness womanhood
Loneliness is killing millions of American men. Here’s why. https://www.upworthy.com/loneliness-is-killing-millions-of-american-men-here-s-why?c=ufb2
Sun 12 May 2019 04:09:44 PM CEST archive.org
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"Boys know by late adolescence that their close male friendships, and even their emotional acuity, put them at risk of being labeled girly, immature, or gay," Way writes. "Thus, rather than focusing on who they are, they become obsessed with who they are not — they are not girls, little boys nor, in the case of heterosexual boys, are they gay."

feminism manhood
Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a27259689/toxic-masculinity-male-friendships-emotional-labor-men-rely-on-women/
Sun 12 May 2019 03:16:19 PM CEST archive.org
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Kylie-Anne Kelly can’t remember the exact moment she became her boyfriend’s one and only, his what would I do without you, but she does remember neglecting her own needs to the point of hospitalization.

[…]

After three years together, when exhaustion and anxiety landed her in the hospital and her boyfriend claimed he was “too busy” to visit, they broke up.

feminism womanhood
Activists Are Paying Bail for Incarcerated Black Mothers | Bitch Media https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/if-mamas-free-abolitionist-blues-liberation
Sun 12 May 2019 02:40:08 PM CEST archive.org
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Black mamas are sitting in prison awaiting trial for being too free. For bringing Black children into a world that fears and punishes them. For writing bad checks to feed their kids. For defending themselves in a world that assaults them daily. For protecting their family members. For crimes they haven’t even been tried for—with bails set too high for their families to pay—forced to wait while the court system pressures them to take guilty pleas for crimes they didn’t commit so they can go home on probation.

What time is it? It’s time to get them out.

blackness feminism
You Guys https://www.xaprb.com/blog/you-guys/
Fri 15 Mar 2019 06:33:40 PM CET archive.org
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Is Guys Gender-Neutral?

Short answer: No. It simply is not gender-neutral, especially when men say it to a mixed group. The dictionary is wrong. Real people don’t use it neutrally in the real world.

feminism
The female price of male pleasure https://theweek.com/articles/749978/female-price-male-pleasure
Mon 18 Feb 2019 06:09:26 PM CET archive.org
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Why didn't she just get out of there as soon as she felt uncomfortable? many people explicitly or implicitly asked.

It's a rich question, and there are plenty of possible answers. But if you're asking in good faith, if you really want to think through why someone might have acted as she did, the most important one is this: Women are enculturated to be uncomfortable most of the time. And to ignore their discomfort.

This is so baked into our society I feel like we forget it's there.

feminism masculinity
La domination masculine dans le couple (Partie III) – Egalitaria https://egalitaria.fr/2018/08/25/la-domination-masculine-dans-le-couple-partie-iii-synthese/
Mon 18 Feb 2019 04:36:33 PM CET archive.org
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Dans nos sociétés contemporaines, le couple est célébré, sanctifié, convoité. Il représente une sorte de Graal à atteindre, tout en s’imposant comme la configuration de vie « par défaut », comme si tous les êtres humains allaient forcément par paires. C’est aussi une valeur refuge. L’injonction « au couple » est donc particulièrement forte, même si l’on observe des variations selon les milieux sociaux. Mais les hommes et les femmes ne sont pas égaux face à cette injonction. En effet, les femmes sont beaucoup plus incitées, et ce depuis leur plus jeune âge, à faire des relations amoureuses un but premier – quitte pour cela à sacrifier leur épanouissement personnel, et à mettre leurs aspirations en sourdine. L’ombre du Prince charmant plane au-dessus des têtes féminines comme le but ultime à atteindre, comme s’il était impossible d’être complète, « valable », sans un partenaire à ses côtés.

feminism heterosexuality
The Woman-Identified Woman http://questions.tf/traduction-the-woman-identified-woman/
Sat 25 Aug 2018 10:01:16 AM CEST archive.org

Pour une femme dans cette société sexiste, être indépendante signifie qu’on ne peut être une femme – on est une gouine. Ceci devrait en soi nous éclairer sur la situation des femmes. Ce que cela dit, aussi clairement que possible, c’est que les mots femme et personne sont contradictoires. Car une lesbienne n’est pas considérée comme une vraie femme. Et pourtant, dans l’imaginaire collectif, la seule différence essentielle entre une lesbienne et les autres femmes, c’est celle de l’orientation sexuelle. Ce qui revient à dire, au fond, que l’essence de la condition de femme est d’être baisée par les hommes.

feminism lesbianism
Alewives: The Women Who Crafted Beer and Split Hell Wide Open https://www.autostraddle.com/ale-wives-the-women-who-created-beer-and-split-hell-wide-open-427858/
Sun 19 Aug 2018 10:48:21 AM CEST archive.org
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In every ancient society where beer existed, the craft was created and carried out by women. Often, they even received their instruction from goddesses they conjugated with for life. There’s no mythology in which a male god gifts brewing instructions to humanity, and no mythology in which a man receives brewing instructions from a deity. It’s always goddesses and it’s always women brewers.

beer feminism history
The Rub of Rough Sex https://longreads.com/2018/07/25/the-rub-of-rough-sex/
Fri 03 Aug 2018 05:39:25 PM CEST archive.org
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Chelsea G. Summers considers the ways in which outwardly ‘progressive’ men like former Attorney General Eric Schneiderman use kink as a cover for abuse.

abuse bdsm feminism
Your Mother Is A Whore: On Sex Work And Motherhood https://theestablishment.co/your-mother-is-a-whore-sex-work-and-motherhood/
Fri 20 Jul 2018 11:07:32 AM CEST archive.org
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Violet is at home with her daughter and boyfriend when she hears a knock at the door. She opens it to find five police officers and a social worker. “They went through our laundry, our bag of adult toys, all of our cupboards,” she tells me over the phone. “They said that my mom called and told them that I am a prostitute and that I am subjecting my daughter to it.”

feminism sexwork
Meet the Woke Misogynist https://splinternews.com/meet-the-woke-misogynist-1793859082
Sun 15 Jul 2018 11:01:10 AM CEST archive.org
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The woke misogynist is a guy who talks a big game about gender equality and consent, uses vocabulary like “triggering” without rolling his eyes, wears a pussy hat to the Women’s March, prefers to fuck feminists and may freely call himself one, too—then turns around and harasses you, assaults you, or belittles you.

feminism
Le calling out dans le contexte trans https://framasphere.org/posts/bb5db720384801364cc42a0000053625
Sun 13 May 2018 01:27:23 PM CEST archive.org

Il faut faire attention à ne pas traiter un calling out envers un·e non-mec cis, en particulier une personne trans, de la même manière qu’envers un mec cis, car cela veut dire l’isoler complètement : si on sort cette personne de tous les milieux trans, où va-t-elle aller ? Si on isole cette personne, on la pousse au suicide tout simplement. En utilisant le calling out on l’expose de plus au lynchage collectif qui sera bien plus dur à encaisser que pour un mec cis du fait qu’elle ne sera soutenue par personne ou presque. On est dans la vengeance, dans la justice punitive.

callout feminism transfeminism
Why Are Secular Skeptic Communities Failing To Address Sexual Crime? https://theestablishment.co/why-are-secular-skeptic-communities-failing-to-address-sexual-crime-26cddb5ce63b
Fri 20 Apr 2018 11:27:19 AM CEST archive.org
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The overwhelming evidence suggests that Shermer, according to Zvan, is a predator. “But what we get instead from skeptics,” she said, “what they’re calling ‘skepticism’ is them trying to pick apart the story of that evening and saying, ‘Well, this little tiny detail doesn’t make sense,’ as in it does make sense in their head—that it’s not the way they think the story should go. And that’s not skepticism.”

Toute ressemblance avec certaines personnes se revendiquant de la « zététique » est purement « fortuit »

feminism skepticism zetetique
The myth of the male bumbler http://theweek.com/articles/737056/myth-male-bumbler
Fri 13 Apr 2018 01:31:01 PM CEST archive.org
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How many deliberate, premeditated lies, how many carefully set traps, how many instances of deceit do we need before we can admit that men are every bit as duplicitous and two-faced as women are suspected of being? That harassment is not an accident? That predation requires planning? That this gigantic apparatus through which women's careers are destroyed and men's are preserved isn't just happenstance?

feminism
Is it true that on average women get longer jail sentences than men do ? https://www.quora.com/Is-it-true-that-on-average-women-get-longer-jail-sentences-than-men-do
Tue 20 Mar 2018 10:44:24 AM CET archive.org

Generally speaking, no. As others have already said, studies of sentencing show that women usually get shorter sentences than men for the same types of crime.

There is one exception, however. Women who kill or commit violence against male intimate partners usually receive longer sentences than men who kill or commit violence against female intimate partners, even in self-defense.

feminism
Save Your Apologies: Here’s What Women Need From Men Right Now https://theestablishment.co/save-your-apologies-heres-what-women-need-from-men-right-now-de0cca3f8004
Tue 28 Nov 2017 02:24:06 PM CET archive.org
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Every woman you know has been sexually harassed in some way. Every single one. Yes, your mom. Yes, your wife. Yes, your great-aunt Edna. ESPECIALLY your great-aunt Edna. For the most part, women learn how to deftly avoid men who lean into them too forcefully on public transport, the guy who not only catcalls us on the street, but follows us for two blocks, trying to provoke a reaction, the boss who we’ve been warned to never, ever be alone with. It’s part of how we learn to navigate the world.

feminism
I Loved The Man Who Abused Me – The Establishment https://theestablishment.co/i-loved-the-man-who-abused-me-6f846e00c4b5
Mon 27 Nov 2017 05:41:50 PM CET archive.org
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He’d been my boyfriend four months already, though we became friends when I was 14 and he was 21. It was two years since we met, and I thought I knew him well.

feminism toxicrelationship
We Asked Men and Women to Wear Sensors at Work. They Act the Same but Are Treated Very Differently https://hbr.org/2017/10/a-study-used-sensors-to-show-that-men-and-women-are-treated-differently-at-work
Mon 27 Nov 2017 01:10:38 PM CET archive.org
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Our analysis suggests that the difference in promotion rates between men and women in this company was due not to their behavior but to how they were treated. This indicates that arguments about changing women’s behavior — to “lean-in,” for example — might miss the bigger picture: Gender inequality is due to bias, not differences in behavior.

Bias, as we define it, occurs when two groups of people act identically but are treated differently.

feminism
Tearing Down the Toxic Male Fraternity – The Establishment https://theestablishment.co/tearing-down-the-toxic-male-fraternity-55b10699110e
Wed 22 Nov 2017 09:06:00 AM CET archive.org
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There can be no real change until there is a reckoning. Men must come to grips with the fact that all men are a part of a toxic fraternity. And it’s not like this toxic fraternity hasn’t been called out. We’re familiar with phrases like “men are trash,” often stated by women or femmes who have routinely been on the receiving end of inexcusably despicable and dangerous behavior perpetrated by men.

feminism
When You Can’t Throw All Men Into The Ocean And Start Over, What CAN You Do? https://theestablishment.co/when-you-cant-throw-all-men-into-the-ocean-start-over-what-can-you-do-a9e48b040d08
Sat 11 Nov 2017 09:16:19 AM CET archive.org
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Every day I’m trying to counter the flood of messaging my sons are receiving from television, music, movies, books, friends, and our own government that says that they have a right to a woman’s body. Every day I’m trying to counter the flood of messaging that my sons are receiving that says that overcoming a woman’s objections is romantic. Every day I’m trying to counter the flood of messaging that tells them that their manhood is defined by how many women they can have sex with. […] And every day I’m reminding them that they are responsible for their actions.

feminism masculinity
What Is Gamergate, and Why? An Explainer for Non-Geeks http://gawker.com/what-is-gamergate-and-why-an-explainer-for-non-geeks-1642909080
Sat 11 Oct 2014 03:06:22 PM CEST archive.org

« Assholegaters demand to be seen simultaneously as a 70-million-strong market force, too big for the industry to ignore, and as a persecuted minority. »

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Video Games, Misogyny, And Terrorism: A Guide To Assholes http://badassdigest.com/2014/08/26/video-games-misogyny-and-terrorism-a-guide-to-assholes/
Sat 30 Aug 2014 02:39:52 PM CEST archive.org

« There’s a fundamental lack of empathy or understanding for other human beings at play here. These people live in a fucked-up alternate universe where everything is done for the lulz, or to win points in some kind of psychopathic game of one-upmanship. »

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Skeptical Egg is skeptical — I'm not a feminist, but maybe I should be. http://www.skepticalegg.com/post/96023023477/im-not-a-feminist-but-maybe-i-should-be
Sat 30 Aug 2014 10:23:00 AM CEST archive.org

Une meuf raconte comment les vidéos d'Anita Sarkeesian lui ont ouvert les yeux.

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